Words We Love to Hate

1356

Comments

  • "hideous." I had an abusive relative for whom this was her favorite word. You can deduce what her outlook on life was like from this fact.
  • SojournerSojourner Shipmate
    “tightly held” ( eg by family for x years) to describe house for sale; worse yet, as a description of neighbourhood of said house…aarrrgggghhh
  • SojournerSojourner Shipmate
    'Kinda' and 'gonna'

    Another two words to add to the list.

    😉

    “Gunna” in Ozspeak, as inmortalised by the late Patrick White.

  • SpikeSpike Ecclesiantics & MW Host, Admin Emeritus
    “Obviously” when what the person is saying isn’t obvious at all. “I wanted to make a cup if tea, but obviously the kettle was broken”
  • 'Horrendous' is another over-used term.

    'Devastated' is another.

    'Absolutely' is absolutely another.
  • sionisaissionisais Shipmate
    Oh, I am so in agreement with you about “devastated”.
    It is overused so that when it is appropriate, it doesn’t have the impact or power it should.

  • DafydDafyd Hell Host
    Despise to mean hate. There's a perfectly good word meaning hate, and there isn't another easy way to say feel contempt for.
    It's no longer quite so easy to say far-right politicians despise the ordinary people they claim to champion.
  • The RogueThe Rogue Shipmate
    'Kinda' and 'gonna'

    Another two words to add to the list.

    😉

    One of the songs at church includes gonna and I always try to squeeze going to in.
  • Any worship song containing 'gonna' should be condemned by bell, book and candle.

    Pope Gamaliel might perhaps be persuaded to make an exception for kiddies' songs.
  • SojournerSojourner Shipmate
    “Pope”???!!!! I’d have thought you’d at least be aiming for archimandrite if not the Ecumenical Patriarch!
  • Spike wrote: »
    “Obviously” when what the person is saying isn’t obvious at all. “I wanted to make a cup if tea, but obviously the kettle was broken”

    'Obviously' is also used by people who are thumping the table to scare off opposition to their opinion and know they haven't a shred of evidence to back them up.
  • Spike wrote: »
    “Obviously” when what the person is saying isn’t obvious at all. “I wanted to make a cup if tea, but obviously the kettle was broken”

    'Obviously' is also used by people who are thumping the table to scare off opposition to their opinion and know they haven't a shred of evidence to back them up.

    I thought it can also be ironic. In the above example, it's not obvious that the kettle is broken, hence a tone of exasperation, or incredulity. A bit like literally, which can be used metaphorically.
  • Nick TamenNick Tamen Shipmate
    Any worship song containing 'gonna' should be condemned by bell, book and candle.

    Pope Gamaliel might perhaps be persuaded to make an exception for kiddies' songs.
    Or folk songs or spirituals, I hope?

    I no would rarely write gonna, nor would I use it in anything approaching formal speech. But it’s absolutely how I and pretty much everyone in these parts speaks conversationally.

    Well, that’s not quite true. It just as likely, maybe even more likely, to be gon’ as gonna.


  • It's used in demotic speech here too. It was very much what we'd say in South Wales when I was growing up, but it'd be more like gonnoo or [/i]go-win-ah[/i]down there. 'I'm gonnoo go and geh some fish and chips after work ...'

    But no, Supreme Pontiff Gamaliel wouldn't proscribe it from demotic speech nor from folk songs and spirituals ...

    Ummm @Sojourner, you're aware that an archimandrite is a mere abbot, aren't you?

    I settled for Pope as Western Patriarch. 😉

    There'd be no need for an Ecumenical Patriarch to proscribe 'gonna' in hymnody as it doesn't appear in koine Greek or Church Slavonic or Romanian, Bulgarian, Arabic, Czech, Finnish ... or English translations of Orthodox liturgical texts.

    Imagine.

    'Again and again in peace we're gonna pray to the Lord ...'

    No, as Pope I would call upon all separated brethren in the Anglican, Lutheran, Presbyterian and other communions, churches and denominations to excise 'gonna' in the interests of Christian solidarity.

    Other proscribed words would include 'really' and 'just' as in 'we really just pray'.

    Only then will a full reformation be complete.
  • SpikeSpike Ecclesiantics & MW Host, Admin Emeritus
    A bit like literally, which can be used metaphorically.

    My head literally explodes whenever I hear that 😁

    I was once travelling on a tube when I overheard a young woman’s telling her friend about an argument she’d had with someone and said “so I literally grew a pair of bollocks and said ….”
  • RuthRuth Shipmate
    It's used in demotic speech here too. It was very much what we'd say in South Wales when I was growing up, but it'd be more like gonnoo or [/i]go-win-ah[/i]down there. 'I'm gonnoo go and geh some fish and chips after work ...'

    Here in Southern California it's frequently "I'm uhnuh go" - the g disappears, the vowels are both schwas, and neither syllable is stressed. I write "gonna" in texts enough that my phone will fill it in for me.

    I understand the distaste for filler words when they seem like they're a quarter or more of the words a speaker can barely get out of their mouth, but I love the use of "was like" in place of "said."
  • SpikeSpike Ecclesiantics & MW Host, Admin Emeritus
    Recently, a lot of people have been using the word “obligated” instead of “obliged”. Why?
  • The_RivThe_Riv Shipmate
    edited June 20
    Ruth wrote: »
    The_Riv wrote: »
    I've never enjoyed being told "you're fine" after I've said "excuse me," or "pardon me."
    Around here I feel like a lot of people say "excuse me" out of an abundance of caution when they're doing something innocuous like taking up space on the sidewalk while their dog sniffs something, and I say something like "oh no, it's fine" to acknowledge that they're paying attention to the fact that they're not the only person on the sidewalk but not doing anything they shouldn't be doing. (As opposed to the few who apparently think they own the whole sidewalk.)

    Yes. And "it's fine,' or "it's no problem," or "I don't mind" feels a lot different to me than "you're fine," as if some aspect of my character was up for evaluation.
    March Hare wrote: »
    Iconic.

    Yes!
  • Nick TamenNick Tamen Shipmate
    Oh, how could I forget gift as a verb, as in “she gifted us a bottle of Château Mouton Rothschild.”

    Yes, I know the usage is centuries old, and yes, I know that give doesn’t necessarily convey the sense of something being a gift. But it still makes my skin crawl.


  • Nick TamenNick Tamen Shipmate
    The_Riv wrote: »
    Ruth wrote: »
    The_Riv wrote: »
    I've never enjoyed being told "you're fine" after I've said "excuse me," or "pardon me."
    Around here I feel like a lot of people say "excuse me" out of an abundance of caution when they're doing something innocuous like taking up space on the sidewalk while their dog sniffs something, and I say something like "oh no, it's fine" to acknowledge that they're paying attention to the fact that they're not the only person on the sidewalk but not doing anything they shouldn't be doing. (As opposed to the few who apparently think they own the whole sidewalk.)

    Yes. And "it's fine,' or "it's no problem," or "I don't mind" feels a lot different to me than "you're fine," as if some aspect of my character was up for evaluation.
    After you posted about this a day or two ago, I found myself saying “you’re fine.” I hear it as “you’ve done nothing warranting asking to be excused,” but I’ll try to switch to “it’s fine” or one of the other options. (“Try” may be the operative word.)

  • HugalHugal Shipmate
    It's used in demotic speech here too. It was very much what we'd say in South Wales when I was growing up, but it'd be more like gonnoo or [/i]go-win-ah[/i]down there. 'I'm gonnoo go and geh some fish and chips after work ...'

    But no, Supreme Pontiff Gamaliel wouldn't proscribe it from demotic speech nor from folk songs and spirituals ...

    Ummm @Sojourner, you're aware that an archimandrite is a mere abbot, aren't you?

    I settled for Pope as Western Patriarch. 😉

    There'd be no need for an Ecumenical Patriarch to proscribe 'gonna' in hymnody as it doesn't appear in koine Greek or Church Slavonic or Romanian, Bulgarian, Arabic, Czech, Finnish ... or English translations of Orthodox liturgical texts.

    Imagine.

    'Again and again in peace we're gonna pray to the Lord ...'

    No, as Pope I would call upon all separated brethren in the Anglican, Lutheran, Presbyterian and other communions, churches and denominations to excise 'gonna' in the interests of Christian solidarity.

    Other proscribed words would include 'really' and 'just' as in 'we really just pray'.

    Only then will a full reformation be complete.

    That is a great ambition. I suspect it would remain so.
  • March HareMarch Hare Shipmate
    'Decimated' used as if it meant 'totally destroyed'.
    ''Fortuitous' used as if it was synonymous with 'fortunate'
    ...but I realise I'm getting into mere pedantry.
  • 'I was like ...' aaaaarrrghhh!
  • Hugal wrote: »
    It's used in demotic speech here too. It was very much what we'd say in South Wales when I was growing up, but it'd be more like gonnoo or [/i]go-win-ah[/i]down there. 'I'm gonnoo go and geh some fish and chips after work ...'

    But no, Supreme Pontiff Gamaliel wouldn't proscribe it from demotic speech nor from folk songs and spirituals ...

    Ummm @Sojourner, you're aware that an archimandrite is a mere abbot, aren't you?

    I settled for Pope as Western Patriarch. 😉

    There'd be no need for an Ecumenical Patriarch to proscribe 'gonna' in hymnody as it doesn't appear in koine Greek or Church Slavonic or Romanian, Bulgarian, Arabic, Czech, Finnish ... or English translations of Orthodox liturgical texts.

    Imagine.

    'Again and again in peace we're gonna pray to the Lord ...'

    No, as Pope I would call upon all separated brethren in the Anglican, Lutheran, Presbyterian and other communions, churches and denominations to excise 'gonna' in the interests of Christian solidarity.

    Other proscribed words would include 'really' and 'just' as in 'we really just pray'.

    Only then will a full reformation be complete.

    That is a great ambition. I suspect it would remain so.

    One can only live in hope.
  • BroJamesBroJames Purgatory Host
    Hugal wrote: »
    It's used in demotic speech here too. It was very much what we'd say in South Wales when I was growing up, but it'd be more like gonnoo or [/i]go-win-ah[/i]down there. 'I'm gonnoo go and geh some fish and chips after work ...'

    But no, Supreme Pontiff Gamaliel wouldn't proscribe it from demotic speech nor from folk songs and spirituals ...

    Ummm @Sojourner, you're aware that an archimandrite is a mere abbot, aren't you?

    I settled for Pope as Western Patriarch. 😉

    There'd be no need for an Ecumenical Patriarch to proscribe 'gonna' in hymnody as it doesn't appear in koine Greek or Church Slavonic or Romanian, Bulgarian, Arabic, Czech, Finnish ... or English translations of Orthodox liturgical texts.

    Imagine.

    'Again and again in peace we're gonna pray to the Lord ...'

    No, as Pope I would call upon all separated brethren in the Anglican, Lutheran, Presbyterian and other communions, churches and denominations to excise 'gonna' in the interests of Christian solidarity.

    Other proscribed words would include 'really' and 'just' as in 'we really just pray'.

    Only then will a full reformation be complete.

    That is a great ambition. I suspect it would remain so.

    One can only live in hope.

    If you wish
  • I think I'd rather live in the village of Hope in the Peak District, he said prejudiciously ... I couldn't open the link to Hope, Texas.

    If it's anything like Paris, Texas there'll be red soil and tumbleweed and a Ry Cooder slide-guitar soundtrack.

    The latter is no bad thing.
  • Nick Tamen wrote: »
    Oh, how could I forget gift as a verb, as in “she gifted us a bottle of Château Mouton Rothschild.”

    Yes, I know the usage is centuries old, and yes, I know that give doesn’t necessarily convey the sense of something being a gift. But it still makes my skin crawl.


    To which one might add regifting. i.e. getting rid of unwanted gifts, as explained by a daughter shortly before we gave up sending Christmas and birthday gifts that couldn't be banked.
  • GwaiGwai Epiphanies Host
    I think I'd rather live in the village of Hope in the Peak District, he said prejudiciously ... I couldn't open the link to Hope, Texas.

    If it's anything like Paris, Texas there'll be red soil and tumbleweed and a Ry Cooder slide-guitar soundtrack.

    The latter is no bad thing.

    Having been to Paris Texas, there really won't be anything of the sort as that isn't remotely the climate there. It's in the "piney woods" section of Texas if that helps you picture it. Or here's a link to a picture of a place where I used to see a dentist: https://www.pinterest.com/pin/things-to-do-in-paris--494410865340635921/
  • Don't tell me, tell Wim Wenders.
  • Nick TamenNick Tamen Shipmate
    FWIW, measuring as the crow flies, the distance from Hope, TX, to Paris, TX, (295 miles) is less than 40 miles shorter than the distance from London to Edinburgh (332 miles).


  • RuthRuth Shipmate
    Plus no one living in Texas bats an eye at driving that far.
  • BoogieBoogie Heaven Host
    Ruth wrote: »
    Plus no one living in Texas bats an eye at driving that far.

    They would if they tried London to Edinburgh! 😂
  • Yes, but the same distance in Texas would consist of 'piney woods' as well as red soil, tumbleweed and Ry Cooder on slide guitar as a sound-track.
  • Just as, cinematically, a drive from London would start with the chimes of Big Ben even through Barnet with 'Ilkley Moor' through Yorkshire, 'The Blaydon Races' as you eventually drove past Newcastle and The Angel Of The North, segueing to a bag pipe drone as you headed along the Royal Mile.
  • C'mon @Gwai, Paris, Texas looks and sounds like this and you can't convince me otherwise ...

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rgxHqavWWZA

    You may have been there but I've seen it in the cinema, so there. :wink:
  • The RogueThe Rogue Shipmate
    March Hare wrote: »
    'Decimated' used as if it meant 'totally destroyed'.
    ''Fortuitous' used as if it was synonymous with 'fortunate'
    ...but I realise I'm getting into mere pedantry.

    In a Dr Who episode the Master as John Saxon instructed his robotic allies to decimate Earth's population and added "Kill one in ten" which earned the script writer plaudits from pedants all over the world. Well, nine in ten of them, anyway.
  • Alan29Alan29 Shipmate
    Less instead of fewer gets me throwing stuff at the TV every time.
    UK presenters who mispronounce aluminium make me roll my eyes. Check the spelling, folks.
  • I don't think checking spelling is all that helpful. For example words ending in -tion are not pronounced as written, but as shun.
  • Alan29Alan29 Shipmate
    I don't think checking spelling is all that helpful. For example words ending in -tion are not pronounced as written, but as shun.

    In the case of aluminium it would be.
  • BroJamesBroJames Purgatory Host
    Although the North American spelling (aluminum) is original to Sir Humphrey Davy. His original choice was alumium and he altered the spelling in 1812 to aluminum. But in 1813 in the report on his work in The Philosophical Transactions of the Royal Society it was given as aluminium, aligning with potassium and sodium (which Davy had also coined).
    Source
  • Alan29 wrote: »
    I don't think checking spelling is all that helpful. For example words ending in -tion are not pronounced as written, but as shun.

    In the case of aluminium it would be.

    So sometimes the spelling helps, and sometimes it doesn't. It's fun.
  • Alan29Alan29 Shipmate
    I don't think checking spelling is all that helpful. For example words ending in -tion are not pronounced as written, but as shun.

    In Elizabethan times it wasnt unusual for composers to set - tion endings with two notes to be sung as two syllables. That leads to discussions about how the "t" should be pronounced - hard t, or s or sh. I expect PhDs have been written on it.
  • March Hare wrote: »
    'Legendary' when used of real people.

    You're going to make me mention the metaphorical use of "literally", aren't you?
  • MMM wrote: »
    People who start the answer to every question with ‘so’.

    So would you recommend that we all start using Hwæt instead?
  • RuthRuth Shipmate
    Boogie wrote: »
    Ruth wrote: »
    Plus no one living in Texas bats an eye at driving that far.

    They would if they tried London to Edinburgh! 😂

    I'm not an idiot - I took the train!
    March Hare wrote: »
    'Legendary' when used of real people.

    You're going to make me mention the metaphorical use of "literally", aren't you?

    You'd be literally legendary if you did.
  • It's already been mentioned ...

    Two or three pet hates:
    "Under-estimate" used instead of "over-estimate" - as in "It's impossible to under-estimate the effect these changes will have".
    "Very seriously" in corporate replies - "Bloggs and Co. take such problems very seriously".

    I'm also getting a bit fed up with "iconic" - especially when linked to (?with) the aforementioned "legendary".
  • sionisaissionisais Shipmate
    Too often I have read a bland summary of “Lessons Learned” in a project review.
  • I recently had to read a document that opened with words telling me that "by the end of this course you will have learned...". No I won't. I may have had information on the topic delivered to me by someone who doesn't care and won't test me, but whether or not I will have learnt anything is unknowable at the beginning. (Is 'unknowable' a bad word? I think it may be).
  • EnochEnoch Shipmate
    ... I'm also getting a bit fed up with "iconic" - especially when linked to (?with) the aforementioned "legendary".
    "A bit"?! in the last few months I have found that 'iconic' has become a sure and certain marker that something has been written more or less entirely by AI.

    'Iconic' is definitely on my list.


  • Legacy. Far from being a generous gift from a deceased, loving admirer, it can now mean an old software program that the producer wishes you wouldn't use, or, as I just read in a news release from Boeing, it can be a legacy platform, meaning an old plane.
Sign In or Register to comment.